Category: Engaged

Are you engineering a better and more explosive relationship with your spouse?  Many couples say that they want more from their unions but are simply not willing to work at it. My suggestion… “Use it or lose it.” Know that your relationship will become old and rusty and you (Yes even you) could be replaced leaving you sitting there on the outside looking in with all of your “wulda” “shoulda” and “coulda” blame frustration and doubt.

Change your plan

A wise man once told me that you are a combination of the books you read and the people that you hang around. I would add to this excellent insight that you are also what you look at and listen to.  In other words if you are not having the type of impact that you desire with your loved one, change your resources. If you are not reading the Bible… Shame, shame, shame! Get after it! Start reading today. Email me if you want some good scriptures or an outline that we sometimes send out for couples.

Find some other books that are willing help you improve. Look for books that are Christian or Jewish in nature. Stay away from the far-out new age stuff.  Some author suggestions, John Maxwell and Rabbi Shalom Arush just to name two of my favorites. Find someone that speaks to you. If you don’t like to read then try audible.com that is a cool alternative.

If your coworkers or relatives are a negative force and seem to be pulling you down GET OUT! You need to find some friends that are focused on the same things that you are. If you cannot find any right now then seek the face of God and ask Him to place some folks in your path.

The bottom line is that if you want to be better, then you need to look for some other folks that want to be better too.  This will ultimately improve your relationship with Yahweh and with your Husband/Wife.

Learn how to troubleshoot with your sweetheart

Every conversation does not have to be an expatiation laden position fest. Here are some tips for more powerful communication:

Listen to what they are saying: If you are truly listening then you will be able to empathize and understand their position.

Open body language up: If you fold your arms and are looking down when they are talking or you butt in and cut them off this will send the message that what they have to say is not important.

Listen to the free podcast that is attached to this message.  (at the top)

You are invited to our Marriage Seminar coming up in February 12th, 2012 click the link below for more details!

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100.9 FM - The Hill

This morning I interviewed with Mr. Rick Godley on FM 100.9 The Hill in West Monroe Louisiana. I was blessed to be on his morning show talking about the up coming Marriage Seminar.

Can you imagine the feeling of floating on a cloud or that feeling that you felt when you first experienced love and true intimacy?  Have you been looking for ways to bring forth the thing inside you that you can’t explain? Are you hungry to experience an unbridled life of expression and continual power within your marriage? Are you ready to blow the lid off of any of your expectations or ideals? Are you ready to annex those blocks that are stopping you from truly growing your relationship with your loved one?

Are you ready to enjoy new levels of love with your sweetheart that will cause you to truly see the love that our Heavenly Father has for us?We are inviting you and your loved one to come and be our guest for one special night at the Westin Stonebriar in Frisco, Texas February 12th, 2012.

Learn how to genuinely express yourself and truly connect with your spouse, learn how to apply the Holy Scriptures to your life’s call of husband/wife and exceed in every way.

Dont miss this tremendous opportunity to create MORE in your relationship.

Register today!

Click below to learn more about the event:

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February 12th 2012

This  one day (Marriage Seminar) is Sponsored by ConfrontNation and hosted by the beautiful Westin Stonebriar in Frisco TX.

What you get:

Six hours of teaching and instruction by Ed and Chavah Harris

  • A workbook that will outline all of the conference materials and serve as a powerful workbook for reference, home study and bible studies for years to come.
  • An action plan for a more powerful and committed marriage.
  • Only $129.00 per couple  (Dinner included)

This intimate event is going to fill up very quickly so register today!

**The first fifty couples that have confirmed (paid registrations) will automatically be entered into a drawing for one of the following gifts:

  • A “honeymoon night” intimate dinner and one night stay at the beautiful Westin Stonebriar in Frisco, TX.
  • Southwest gift vouchers. Take your sweetheart to the destination of your choice and enjoy some time away!
  • Three weekend getaways will also be given away.

**You must be present to win! The first fifty couples will automatically be entered into the drawing!**

Some of the topics: 

How to build true faith - learn it and live it!
How to unleash the power of gratefulness - The key to true freedom
Become an expert of your spouse - Learn some of the keys to taking your union to the next level
Communication - Verbal and non-verbal communication are the keys to higher levels of relationship with Yahweh and with each other.
How to establish theHouse of prayer - prayer plan for success – Create a prayer plan and execute it!
Repentance - Cleaning the house, cause your relationship to reflect even more of the light of the Messiah as you go through this awesome exercise.
Register today to be apart of this life changing event. This will defiently take your relationship to the next level!!

Go to store.confrontnation.com and sign up today!

This intimate event is going to fill up very quickly so register today using the link below:

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** Previously recorded audio**
We often stress the need to do personal prayer here on ConfrontNation. And don’t get me wrong, that is so important. But you should also be focused on praying with your spouse. Think about it. Today, the Biblical Marriage is the most attacked institutions out there. With the ridiculous amount of divorces and separations occurring we might want to rethink our strategy of prayer.

Personal Prayer – for sure!

We know the power of personal prayer. I am a witness of the positive results when one gives his/her whole heart to YHWH.  But consider Personal Prayer a platform for all other opportunities of communication with our King.

If we are just praying for ourselves and for our spouses in personal prayer, we are definitely doing some very good work but we will truly experience the benefit of Divine Assistance and marital strengthening when praying together as a couple.  A few of reasons couples don’t pray together:

  • We are on two different schedules - Although this is a great “reason”, we should remember that prayer is like air to our lungs and marrow to our bones. Prayer to YHWH with our spouses is an affirmation of covenant and will give the relationship that added strength.
  • We don’t get along that well - Many couples are faking it. Acting like things are fine between each other.  You might be one of them.  Ask yourself the question, why don’t I desire to pray with my husband? He was good enough to marry, but he is not good enough to pray with?? So, get busy and humble yourself before YHWH and your hubby and get into prayer.
  • I don’t know how to pray - This is a classic one. We all know what Yashua did for His students in Matthew 6:9-14. He gave them the Divine outline for communication. Use this and follow the Psalms. If you need help or suggestions, give us a call here at ConfrontNation we will help you with some basic prayers that you can use as outlines as you are developing your prayer time with your honey.

In closing-

Prayer with the spouse is one of the main ways that you can destroy those strongholds that exist within the marital relationship. When something is happening in the spiritual, rest assured those who are in covenant with YHWH and have dedicated their marriage to His covenant can definitely knock out major strongholds. Why do you think that the Satan wants to destroy the Biblical family?

For the weapons of our warfare [are] not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Messiah. -2 Corinthians 10:4-5

 

In this podcast Ed shares some of the topics that will be taught at the  one day Marriage Seminar on February 12th 2012. One in particular is the Transactional Relationship vs. Covenant. Most people don’t realize that they operate their relationships more like a business instead of a marital union. There are some really cool activities that will be done in the seminar that will cause those that fully participate to experience growth in their relationships immediately.  Ed also welcomes the new listeners that are beginning to learn of ConfrontNation through the Hebraic Roots Network. He also, has a very direct conversation reminding us not to allow our intellect to precede our faith.

This podcast contains some special information for our ConfrontNation listeners and supporters that you don’t want to miss!

If you want to learn more about the Marriage Seminar you can click here:

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