Category: Relational
Are you engineering a better and more explosive relationship with your spouse? Many couples say that they want more from their unions but are simply not willing to work at it. My suggestion… “Use it or lose it.” Know that your relationship will become old and rusty and you (Yes even you) could be replaced leaving you sitting there on the outside looking in with all of your “wulda” “shoulda” and “coulda” blame frustration and doubt.
Change your plan
A wise man once told me that you are a combination of the books you read and the people that you hang around. I would add to this excellent insight that you are also what you look at and listen to. In other words if you are not having the type of impact that you desire with your loved one, change your resources. If you are not reading the Bible… Shame, shame, shame! Get after it! Start reading today. Email me if you want some good scriptures or an outline that we sometimes send out for couples.
Find some other books that are willing help you improve. Look for books that are Christian or Jewish in nature. Stay away from the far-out new age stuff. Some author suggestions, John Maxwell and Rabbi Shalom Arush just to name two of my favorites. Find someone that speaks to you. If you don’t like to read then try audible.com that is a cool alternative.
If your coworkers or relatives are a negative force and seem to be pulling you down GET OUT! You need to find some friends that are focused on the same things that you are. If you cannot find any right now then seek the face of God and ask Him to place some folks in your path.
The bottom line is that if you want to be better, then you need to look for some other folks that want to be better too. This will ultimately improve your relationship with Yahweh and with your Husband/Wife.
Learn how to troubleshoot with your sweetheart
Every conversation does not have to be an expatiation laden position fest. Here are some tips for more powerful communication:
Listen to what they are saying: If you are truly listening then you will be able to empathize and understand their position.
Open body language up: If you fold your arms and are looking down when they are talking or you butt in and cut them off this will send the message that what they have to say is not important.
Listen to the free podcast that is attached to this message. (at the top)
You are invited to our Marriage Seminar coming up in February 12th, 2012 click the link below for more details!

This morning I interviewed with Mr. Rick Godley on FM 100.9 The Hill in West Monroe Louisiana. I was blessed to be on his morning show talking about the up coming Marriage Seminar.
Can you imagine the feeling of floating on a cloud or that feeling that you felt when you first experienced love and true intimacy? Have you been looking for ways to bring forth the thing inside you that you can’t explain? Are you hungry to experience an unbridled life of expression and continual power within your marriage? Are you ready to blow the lid off of any of your expectations or ideals? Are you ready to annex those blocks that are stopping you from truly growing your relationship with your loved one?
Are you ready to enjoy new levels of love with your sweetheart that will cause you to truly see the love that our Heavenly Father has for us?We are inviting you and your loved one to come and be our guest for one special night at the Westin Stonebriar in Frisco, Texas February 12th, 2012.
Learn how to genuinely express yourself and truly connect with your spouse, learn how to apply the Holy Scriptures to your life’s call of husband/wife and exceed in every way.
Dont miss this tremendous opportunity to create MORE in your relationship.
Register today!
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When you are in a very tight and unpredictable situation that requires your submission do you submit 100%? When you are faced with having to exchange your own desires for the desires of someone else how do you fare? Willingly and lovingly submitting your desires and will for the good of another is the basis for every good relationship. We get the foundation for this type of selfless service right out of the scriptures. Yahweh sets the standard by giving us His best, His unique Son Y’Shua who took on human flesh and walked among us. He taught us through His very life the true meaning of sacrifice and true service.
And he saw that there was no man, and wondered that there was no intercessor: therefore his arm brought salvation unto him; and his righteousness, it sustained him. – Isaiah 59:16
Y’Shua gives us the pattern of service as stated in John 13:12-17
When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place. Do you understand what I have done for you? He asked them. You call me Teacher and Master and rightly so, for that is what I Am. Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. I tell you the truth, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. Now that you know these things you will be blessed if you do them.
Do you submit your desires for the sake of your spouses? I am not talking about saying yes to your wife finally after weeks of questioning and finessing by her. I am not talking about saying yes to your husbands will with a frown on your face that sends the message of “It aint over buddy.”
I am taking about killing you your ego and truly submitting to the desires of your loved one. If you are truly a believer and you sincerely love the Master and want to follow Him, adopt His example:
He withdrew about a stone’s throw beyond them, knelt down and prayed, Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done.” – Luke 22:42
When it was all on the line our Master, exchanges His will for you and I.
Let us continue to labor after the heart of Our Master and our Father.
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